Beautiful day

So we headed to my grandfathers for a visit today. Em played in the Garden and is FILTHY. But she had fun. Our cousin who lives next door was home on April vacation so she came to play with Em, they love to play with each other.

One of my family members was also there- we won't mention their name, even though they don't have access to the computer, Michele you'll know who I mean. Well, anyway, they are sooo fresh to my 10yr old cousin, every time my cousin wants to do something and I mean anything, this person has to say no, or don't do that, stop that or something not nice. It makes me so mad. I think because I was once that little girl. This person would talk to me like that too. As an adult I know those words impacted my life, sometimes I am quiet around new people, because I feel like what I have to say isn't worthy, because as a kid this family member would always be fresh/mean. Now my daughter who is three, I don't want her around that or to be spoke to that way. I can't tell this person to stop, it's like talking to a wall. So do I just keep my daughter away from them. OH family fun......UGH