tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post3933438787821902177..comments2023-10-10T07:45:21.968-04:00Comments on Jujukat's World: I didn't know I felt this way.....Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10159689861515802733noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-92043614930585135622008-08-13T21:53:00.000-04:002008-08-13T21:53:00.000-04:00Sounds like emotions you really needed to connect ...Sounds like emotions you really needed to connect with. Though not the same, I went through similar stuff. My brother walked me down the aisle. My dad died never having met my kids. And now they're getting to know my mom.<BR/><BR/>Do what you need to to, girl. Might help to find an objective third party to talk through all of this with. I know it helped me.Fleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03412755038083750088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-2672123672781336322008-08-13T19:48:00.000-04:002008-08-13T19:48:00.000-04:00(((hugs))) hon.You know you have a 'sister' here :...(((hugs))) hon.<BR/><BR/>You know you have a 'sister' here :)Chele76https://www.blogger.com/profile/03991463664460411423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-17739037099039874792008-08-12T22:11:00.000-04:002008-08-12T22:11:00.000-04:00Please dont ever feel like you cant write what you...Please dont ever feel like you cant write what you feel. This should always be an outlet for you. never somewhere else to try to "fit" I think I understand what you mean, I have spent most of my life envying what others have, then all of the sudden, out of the blue, someone will tell me they envy me...and it hits me that for all the things I want and cant change, cant have, I have so much more to be thankful for.Bekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11037471560725774085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-49935894881214247732008-08-12T20:48:00.001-04:002008-08-12T20:48:00.001-04:00I'm sorry Jules. I don't think some father's reali...I'm sorry Jules. I don't think some father's realize what they do to kids. <BR/>HugsRobynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07543401042959655640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-24627383126366025772008-08-12T20:48:00.000-04:002008-08-12T20:48:00.000-04:00Good for you for getting it all out. I have never...Good for you for getting it all out. I have never met my biological father, even though he was married to my mother when I was conceived. I never really missed him, but now that I'm pregnant all these new feelings and curiosities are coming up.<BR/><BR/>I feel for you sweetie. Hug your husband and your daughter. They are your family. Big Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-45297551921220355632008-08-12T16:07:00.000-04:002008-08-12T16:07:00.000-04:00Julie, i'm sorry that this has happened to you, bu...Julie, i'm sorry that this has happened to you, but i think you have dealt with it all well and i admire you. <BR/>Love n hugs,<BR/>Amanda xxAmandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13652316916683235671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-4003212273422563492008-08-12T16:04:00.000-04:002008-08-12T16:04:00.000-04:00I cant imagine what you are going through. But I w...I cant imagine what you are going through. But I will say this. Take that first step. Even if you did in the past...take it again. Nothing is worse than not trying. I would rather fail then to say I never tried. Its always hard to put yourself out there and maybe youll be rejected or maybe not. Maybe you will develope that relationship you have wanted to gain for a long time. I say do it. You never know what can happen and its better late than never. For me I always think..(dont mean to upset you..this is my logic) what if he were to die tomorrow....I would regret not getting to know him, not being able to say what I wanted to say. I would rather know myself that I tried and he didnt want to take that step and not have that on my shoulders. I hope this helps you out and I hope you get through this. Best of luck.Jess & Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09378819768493679118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-61605062729448270672008-08-12T15:54:00.000-04:002008-08-12T15:54:00.000-04:00Don't worry about "feeling sorry for yourself" gir...Don't worry about "feeling sorry for yourself" girl! You are entitled to any and ALL feelings you have. You are human and not a robot. That is a shitty situation and I'm sorry you have had to deal with that. I don't blame you with being upset and wishing your daughter and YOU had a relationship with your dad!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5492998686791429937.post-80577545217025936202008-08-12T13:51:00.000-04:002008-08-12T13:51:00.000-04:00Oh Julie ~ I am so sorry that my post has brought ...Oh Julie ~ I am so sorry that my post has brought all these feelings out in you. I just wish that my ex husband would read this post and think about what he has been like in the past and what he is doing now and in the future!!<BR/>Sending you lots of love and a big hug my friend. XXXXXXXTabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07674175474109511527noreply@blogger.com